If you haven’t read “Born a crime“, I urge you to. It’s a great book by Trevor Noah. He chronicled his story growing up in South Africa in an insightful and humorous manner. It cracked me up a couple of times. As the books I read are quite serious, the humor, positivity and his experience in the book give me a quick escape sometimes, especially on bad days. Like today. Here are some quotes I particularly love:
âBeing chosen is the greatest gift you can give to another human being.â
âI donât regret anything Iâve ever done in life, any choice that Iâve made. But Iâm consumed with regret for the things I didnât do, the choices I didnât make, the things I didnât say. We spend so much time being afraid of failure, afraid of rejection. But regret is the thing we should fear most. Failure is an answer. Rejection is an answer. Regret is an eternal question you will never have the answer to. âWhat ifâŚâ âIf onlyâŚâ âI wonder what would haveâŚâ You will never, never know, and it will haunt you for the rest of your days.â
âWhen you shit, as you first sit down, youâre not fully in the experience yet. You are not yet a shitting person. Youâre transitioning from a person about to shit to a person who is shitting. You donât whip out your smartphone or a newspaper right away. It takes a minute to get the first shit out of the way and get in the zone and get comfortable. Once you reach that moment, thatâs when it gets really nice. Itâs a powerful experience, shitting. Thereâs something magical about it, profound even. I think God made humans shit in the way we do because it brings us back down to earth and gives us humility. I donât care who you are, we all shit the same. BeyoncĂŠ shits. The pope shits. The Queen of England shits. When we shit we forget our airs and our graces, we forget how famous or how rich we are. All of that goes away.”
âLanguage brings with it an identity and a culture, or at least the perception of it. A shared language says âWeâre the same.â A language barrier says âWeâre different.â The architects of apartheid understood this. Part of the effort to divide black people was to make sure we were separated not just physically but by language as wellâŚThe great thing about language is that you can just as easily use it to do the opposite: convince people that they are the same. Racism teaches us that we are different because of the color of our skin. But because racism is stupid, itâs easily tricked.â